Death and Mourning

When someone close to you dies you stop and think of all you said and did with that person or all that was not said. 

You think of all you could have done and all you should have said. You go over the last time you were with the person who died, every second, every word that was said..you examine and reexamine that final moment. What for? I honestly do not know. Maybe to bring you some kind of peace and some kind of closure. 

You heart is heavy so heavy and you just go through the motions of the day and you hang on to your loved ones around you and long for the normalcy of life before your loved one died but deep down you know life has changed and will never be the same. 

It's called mourning all of this is. You have to go through the mourning process or you will never heal from the loss and will be stuck in the mourning in one way or another forever.

You will never ever be over their passing Ofcourse but you will be able to live and have peace.

Death is a part of life but you can not let it be your life. Meaning you can not allow the death to cause you to just give up. You have to keep living. Slowly at first and each day your a little stronger than the last and you will have the days where all you do is cry and that could happen years after your loved one passed and that is ok. Allow yourself to cry! 

Just cry and then move on to the next day.

Death is easy for those who die..it's the living that is hard! 

Be Blessed

MP